It might be that he feels the urge to talk to me about OW and the problems they are having. My DH best friend (the usher) told him early on that he had no right to tell me stuff about OW. That it would hurt me way too much and that this was the downside of having an affair. He said grow up and deal with it yourself. I also told him i did not want to know aboout OW because it hurt.
