whatever your H's insecurites, (and I know its hard for you to not focus on them) its always been obvious to me why you reconciled with him.
IMO, sexual proficiency is not the watermark of real man. I do see that watermark in your H. Stick to the honesty. Stick with 'I want/need this' not the tests of 'he did' or 'you dont do' (fillintheblank). Its a scary but good slate to be on.
