Piecing - H still contacts OW

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Alimari, thank you for your kind words. The biggest thing that help me on this board is for people to share their stories. I am a very logical person. Just feeling it does not work for me very well. But reading post like yours, telling me that you are 10 month into reconciliation and h still have some sort of "ties" (for lack of a better word) gives me some framework for my own situation. I know everyone's situation is different. I've only been in this for 2 months and I know my situation is not as bad as some others. Still, it is difficult for me to see h still contacting ow (he calls, not she calls and he answers). But reading others' sitch does make me realize that I need to slow down and just let things take the time to happen/end/follow its course?

Thanks for all the kind words. I feel for you with those photos of tattoos. Your advise is just what I need to hear to keep me going for another few days/weeks? For me, I need encouragement every so often to keep me going. So THANKS!!! That's probabl why h not telling me everything is SO difficult for me because I need the reassurance and facts from him to get me going, which obvioustly i am not getting. I am glad that I can get words of encouragement here.

H seems to be happier lately. Will see how long this last. We will be moving in the summer. So I expect h to get depressed and at least OW to get pushy closer to that time.