I understand what you want. I didn't feed you code.
The simple fact is that you can't have her back on your terms at this point in the process. Period.
You work the process, or you wait on the affair to burn out. Either way, you suffer. With the first option, hopefully, the affair is shortened and recovery can start much sooner.
You have seen me post it to others here. Life has sent you a boatload of pain. The quickest way to the other side is through it. The longer you wallow in self pity, the longer you stay in pain. Regardless, there is no way around the pain.
No magic.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
