cemar wrote:"So, lets make this simple and skip the desire part. I just want passionate kissing. How do I ask for that in such a way that she could actually succeed at it."

Why don't you buy a copy of "Passionate Kisses" by Mary Chapin Carpenter and play it over and over.

-NOPkins-

I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.