I did have a specific talk with her once on kissing. I told her I would like MORE kissing. So she starts giving me pecks, nothing passionate. Everytime she would lean up to kiss me, she would make some sound to indicate that she was doing it FOR me. It was CLEAR that she was NOT doing it for herself. THis lasted about a week. In order for kissing to be enjoyable, BOTH people must enjoy it. Anything physical in a relationship is only enjoyable when BOTH people enjoy it.
So, lets make this simple and skip the desire part. I just want passionate kissing. How do I ask for that in such a way that she could actually succeed at it.
