Friday I went out directly after work and got home around 1:30 am. GF was already in bed sleeping when I got home. I was surprised to find her home since she was talking about visiting her mom for a few days and not returning until Saturday. I went straight to bed.
Saturday I slept in longer than I normally do. Work and this entire sitch is draining me. As soon as I wake up, the GF comes up to me all happy and smiling. She strikes up a conversation with me about random stuff. I asked her about the dress for the wedding that she is in since she picked it up on Thursday. She tells me that she just had it on not to long ago. She then tells me that she came into my room, while I was sleeping, to use my mirror to see how the dress fit. I am thinking to myself, "WTF? Why is she coming into my room while I am still sleeping to use my mirror when there is a tall mirror for her to use in her room and the bathroom?" I kept my thoughts to myself.
Saturday morning she also mentioned that "her place is going to be like a zoo." She recently adopted a few hamsters. With these new additions, she does have quite a few pets. This is the first time that she has mentioned her getting an apartment in a couple of weeks. I didn't respond to this comment.
She also mentioned that she was waiting to her from a co-worker to see if they would switch shifts with her so that she can attend my friends wedding. She made the comment that she couldn't use a vacation day because she didn't give her boss enough notice. I know for a fact that she usually needs to give 3 weeks notice to use a vacation day. The wedding is 3 weeks away so I am pretty sure that she could get the day off. Plus, her boss likes her and is pretty flexible in adjusting schedules. I just said, "Ok, let me know."
This morning when I got up, I looked out the window and noticed a bunch of broken down cardboard boxes in her car. This was a great way to start off my morning. Not only did she mention her getting an apartment the day before, but now I am seeing boxes in the back of her car. Granted, she brought boxes home about a month and a half ago and she is still here. However, it still sucks to see these types of things.
During lunch, she mentioned that she was still tired and that sleepless nights are catching up to her. I asked her if she was still having trouble sleeping and she responded with a yes. I asked her why she was having trouble sleeping. She stated, "I don't know."
She also told me that she would find out from her co-worker if they can switch shifts or not. I responded, "Your boss wouldn't let you use a vacation day? I thought you had to give three weeks notice. The wedding is like 3 weeks away." She then began to back-peddal a bit, making excuses why she couldn't use a vacation day. For example, "Our scheduling and staffing is weird....my boss didn't want to give me the day off because he didn't want it appear that he was giving me special treatment...etc." I could tell that she was not expecting me to ask about this because she was caught off-guard and couldn't give me one definite reason. I didn't press the issue any further.
So now I don't even know if she wants to go to this wedding with me. Now all she has to tell me is that the co-worker won't switch shifts with her and she has a way out of attending. I am also not holding my breathe about attending the wedding that she is in even though she said she would talk to the bride to see if it would be a problem. She has talked the wedding a few times now and has made no mention of me going with her.
