You will know what you are looking for when you see it. It will come in the form of a paradigm shift in her approach to everything. She will get worse or better, but as long as you do the things you are doing, it will NOT remain at station.
If you are waiting on her to voluntarily "come clean", just make sure that you don't hold your breath while you wait.
When she does "shift", then you will make your move.
Once that is done and emotions have somewhat normalized, you will negotiate your relationship from there.
There is your peek into the future.
No magic, just hard work.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
