J_M, Hear where you are coming from and couldn't agree more on the "friends" issue. There are friends and then there is "just friends" which implies that one party knows the other wants more and, like you said, tries to "use" that to their advantage. The thing that they need to realize is that will only work if the other party lets them and that won't happen in my instance. A person has to stand up for themself otherwise they won't be respected and that is an important part of friendship/a relationship. The WAS at some point should come to realize that, or not. Suppose if they do, couldn't be defined as a WAW anymore. RJ
