JM, Thought about this a lot, just haven't gotten around to posting. There were probalbly a lot of reasons why I was thinking that and all were not noble. The family is my first priority but would not expect either to stay in it if not happy. In the final analysis, yes, I would honestly take her back because the single life financially didn't work out for her. Not to be her sugar bear or anything but because the time we'd spend together would give her a chance to see the changes in me and have an opportunity to actually try some of the DB techniques in person. The love part would grow, I'm fairly confident; she still has some feelings, I can tell when we are together by ourselves. If things didn't work out for whatever reason, we have changed too much and she doesn't emotionally come back, she is just in it for the money, whatever, then at least we'd be able to part on better terms/closure with the growth achieved over the past year and a half.
