I am sorry to hear about your sitch, and that your kids are in this mess, as are a lot of us.....
I just wanted to ask you a question about your W's religious beliefs. Does she know she is in sin? A really big one??? If not, I hope that God can humble her and see what damage she is doing....
Affairs are never the answer.....
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~