It sounds like you are handling things a lot better, good for you.
It also sounds like your W is extremely confused, good for you also
Keep being the "perfect" person you are, it seems to be getting to your W.
When she gets home, I don't see anything wrong with asking how her family and friends are, then if she want's to continue in depth, let her, if not at least you asked.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
