Lovingly detached? Still do the things you used to (re family responsibilities), still be the considerate person you were.
The detaching part is from your W and what she is doing.
It has been working for me and my W, but my problem is the backsliding every couple of weeks. It sort of negates the positives.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
