My old thred has been locked. I'll make a link when I figure out how.

Question.. I am trying to detach but....and that's a big but... Part of the problem my W said she has with me is that She feels that she is always the one that takes care of every thing. Makeing appts, reservations, getting our son shoes Ect.

So I am doing these things now. It seems the oposite of detaching but is seems to be making things beter. It's like she wants to be taken care of.

anybody want to weigh in on this?

And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know