My H has probably noticed the site name if he looks in the history bit on the computer and I think I mentioned going on it and "chatting" to people while we were separated. He knows about the DR book because at one point when we were appart he borrowed it but only read about 30 pages. In answer to your second question no I wouldn't let him read what I'd written - well not the old stuff anyway because I'd be scared it would rock the boat.
I've looked for my old stuff too and couldn't find it I think maybe they drop off the system after a certain length of time but I don't know for sure.
Hope you're still going strong. My H and I seem to have hit a bit of a rocky patch - not the lets drop a bomb kind but I think I'm maybe starting to try to iron out a few of the niggles I have now I feel more secure about things and its causing problems - plus I still get really upset when I think of the four months he was away. The good thing is though we have both recognised the rough patch and have both said we need to talk it all through calmly so we don't get to where we were before. I don't think it helps that I'm really exhausted. We put S into a bed a few weeks ago so now he can come into our room whenever and wake us up whereas in his cot he used to just settle himself back down.
Hope you're two are OK and that you are happy together with your H.
