You are going to destroy our family for some guy who F*cks good?! Get your prorities straight!"
This is the challenge when dealing with an LD guy: to get him to agree that good and satisfying sex IS indeed a priority. Or to get him to see that it can be a high priority for you, and that does not make you some kind of pervert. I think it must be hard for HD guys to really "get" this. That there are men for whom sex, connected or not, is really NOT a priority, and is infact, kind of icky. I certainly would have had a hard time believing it before I found myself living with it. One time my bf and I were watching a movie where a married couple who lived out in the country spontaneously had joyous and enthusiastic sex in the back of their station wagon. It was very sweet. His comment: "What are they? Some kind of sex maniacs?"
Hope this launches an era of better communication, LFL.
