I texted various messages about the kids Lacrosse tournement yesterday to my Ex including Cell phone pics of their games.
There was no communication back from her...
Until
This AM she called from work and we chatted friendly banter etc.
She thanked me for the Pics and the Texts and said "sorry she was busy last night and didn't get back to me"
She talked with the kids on the phone and she is going to come take them out for supper.
I have a friend who stayed over last night we chatted about my life. She has alot of experiece with relationships and issues. She's in town visitng her daughter and is going to be applying for work here next week.
Her advice is that I need to focus on myself...
I agree with that but I am trying to find ways I can do that...
While still leaving the door open for my Ex... not yearning, not looking through it, waiting by it... just leaving it open...