What I did was list things that I consider desire. I never said that she had to meet them 24/7. I never said that she had to meet all of them. It is just a list. What is NOT reasonable on my list. Tell me and I may reconsider that list.
Something else that I am getting confused at is why there is an expectation that marriage can actually be successful without desire. I have read a ton a MC books, and I don't remember ANY book suggesting that it is possible to have a successful marriage without desire. Heck, if someone knows such a book, please tell me, I will try to read it, it might help me.
