i am at the same point. mine is going on 6 months with no progress in terms of her moving hom. now she has certainly softenend and become less defensive but what does this really mean.
i know some people that swear by the power of least interest or total indifference. if your not getting anywhere doing what your doing try something different. i am obsessing over the same decision now, should i file?
good luck try a new approach and guage the results.