A quick question for you .. On the way to the Airport my H listened to a VM he got the nite before.. and it was my EX FRIEND! What is more upsetting is her boyfriend stayed working while my H came here to attend to Business here( he works for a Company here and out of state) and she was suposedly calling cause she wanted my Hubby to take back a cell phone for her boyfriend / My h's friend and employee.

I heard her voice while he was listening to the VM he even turned down the volume so as I wouldn't hear her. But I still did,, and then he repeated her last sentence like a question sort of out loud. I stayed quiet.... Kept saying to myself ALI Stay calm for heavens sake do not say anything!!!!!!!!!!

Then my Heart started racing and I knew I had to say something but also did not want to ruin our few days together...

So I firmly and nicely stated "THAT WAS *&^^%^&* wasn't it?"
and he was honest and said " yes it was ." and before he got in a word edge wise. I said " see that is what I am talking about why in Gods name does she have to call you when her boyfriend is not with you!!!???" OOOOPPPPSSS kind of lost it!

MY H frustrated more than angry replied.. " she wanted me to take *&(^% a cell phone ." she also left him message the day before too. Apparently! So both days my H is home she calls him and not in the am in the evening. Knowing he'll be home.

I lost it even more and even said this in SPANISH!!! I normally speak only English!
TRANSLATION FOLLOWS.
" you see that is exactly what I mean why does she need to call you so much and if she is such a nice person why doesn's she have the balls to come over and face me and drop off the damn phone. I do not care if you take him the phone that is not the point the point is she is so damn disrespectful!!!"
My H had nothing to say to defend her like he had a month or so ago when she acted like an IDIOT. ( which is an understatement )
He did say however why don't we talk @ something important, not this like work or something. I said sure lets talk @ something important I AGREE she is not important but what she does is uncalled for!

Subject closed..... why doe sthis make my Blood boil? When I am so Happy? I get so furious!!!!! At her more than Hubby ,, He is just trying to be nice and in the end hurting my feelings w/o that being his intention. SHEESH!

When we got to the Airport later after having breakfast first, we were walking towards the Terminal and he asked me something he hasn't asked me in over a year.

"DO YOU LOVE ME? "
I answered of course I love you precious and very much how could I not you are so precious to me.

Maybe it is nothing .... but I thought you could give me your male insight....

This was yesterday morning.. that I dropped him off to fly back.
He told me while on his flight back ILY
and then later yesterday I again....
said to him ILY and he said ILY2 and then before I went to bed I called him to say Goodnite and he stated I LOVE YOU.

WOW now that is a record....

I dunno why he would ask me if I love him he hasn't asked me that in so long ......
God bless...