Seriously, who knows. But what is important is that you go where you want to go in life regardless of the spousal situation. Do whatever you must to do to protect yourself and your children, physically, mentally and financially. No one would ever blame you for doing all you can to salvage a marriage. But there is a difference between "I give up" and "I've had enough."
I quoted your whole post here 'cause I know you are 100% correct with that statement.
I definitely have had enough .. but can't find it in me to "do what I have to do".
I don't know if I am afraid that I can't handle the "fall-out" with my trying to implicate changes OR what?
I believe that I truly have done everything to "try" to save our marriage. Which has come down to just letting the way my H IS .. continue that way. Sad..huh? I do this to avoid confrontation .. hanging on .. thinking that maybe, with more time, that things will get better.
