Good to see you had a nice talk. About the OM, he's probably the "lets be friends first and then I'll get into her pants" type. Pretty lame, actually and very adolescent. Once she opens her eyes up after he makes his move she's going to feel so-o-o embarassed about allowing this to get where it is. Just a friend my @ss!
Now, what are your goals? Are you going to stand for your marriage? How? What things are you going to focus on going forward?
