Anytime your actions create a flurry of activity between the infidels, that would indicate that the wayward pair are expending considerable energy to recover their balance (damage control). Then you have done well.
If you think that you are going to break up their relationship in one fell swoop, then you need to regroup.
Try to take some encouragement out of this. When is the last time you really got to strut your stuff? Even if you lose, you win. There is always high demand for real men that can be faithful and strong.
The real battle comes down to this. Since you are already showing MrsChoc that you are ready, willing and able to take back your role as husband and leader of the family, the duration of the remaining fight will depend on the other man's determination. I am trusting that yours is greater than his.
He simply can't compete on the familial front, so you have already won that battle.
Remember, there is no magic, only hard work.
Keep your jacket on. -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
