In any case, hurt as it might, you won the round today. Busted nose, sweat and all, you still won.
Oh, and it is almost always the case that the other person's attributes are a step "down" from the spouse. It is part of the fantasy for your wife. It's part of what makes her feel better about her.
Think about it. If she had hooked up with Fabio, she would be uncertain as to her ability to hang on to him. As is, she is on top of the game - he is fighting for her.
Settle in for the long haul.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
