You don't have to make your feeling go away. Sometimes I have to focus on something over and over. it may not be healthy, and it may not solve anything, but dag, I have to get it out, and I have to feel, and I have to cry, and i have to love this man of mine that is killing me sometimes.
And then I am able to shake it, and go on for a while, before I do all of the above again.
Never apologize for your feeling, and never think you can't love, or talk about it, or talk about the hurt.
I know everyone here tries to "protect" us, but sometimes we just need a shoulder to cry on,, and another day we may need a love smack.
You are feeling normal feelings. I find that a D is really really, not what we most want.
I do think that a D is what has to happn in most cases. It HAS to happen, so then these MLCers can realize what has happened.
Puffy is so up the OW ass his nose is brown. (Gosh that was so visual)
But, what can I do? Pray. Be a great mom.
that's it. And trust me , I am a fixr. I am the busy body, that has to get everything done, and fixed and put a little bow on it, and everything be good.
Nic. You can call me at any time, and any hour, you can cry on the phone to me or say nothing, or I can teach you spanish curse words, there is ALWAYS a need for a spanish curse word.
Feel what you are feeling my lovey. It is ok mamma, My beautiful mamma, it is very much ok.
Dear heart, be sweet yourself. It is just a matter of time, before this OW becomes a THING of the past,
Don't give their R any energy Ok?.
Get some rest lovey
“Pray as though everything depended on God. Work as though everything depended on you.”
