W has lashed out physically at me before, and has damaged my own property. Yes, I have gotten abusive also, but all I did was slam doors in the past out of frustration (I was raised in an abusive home), then I left the house. I always leave for a while when it gets to that point.

These days, I control my abuse (anger) and just do something different. W is the one that gets violent.....she gets hysterical now when she gets upset....and projects her anger at me.

Last edited by sol1696; 05/20/07 01:41 AM.
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