you need to detach a bit here...you are starting to pursue him...asking him to go places with you and do things with you...this is what he gets after spending time with you and then returning "to his other life"...you turn needy and this will help reinforce his belief that things haven't changed...this is just a thought... I still say...leave him be until he moves back towards you...don't find excuses to call him, don't invite him places with you...just go on about business "as if" you have your own life to lead... I can tell you what is happening...he got your hopes up...gave of himself to you for 6 nights at home...this was enough to hook you back up emotionally... It is especially during these times that you need the distance because I can see you starting to rationalize a R talk...tell him how you feel...lay it all out there...ask him if you two are going to be "okay"...you are setting yourself up...time to back down and get back to your life Tam...the one where you can control yourself and you don't have to rely on Xanax to make it through the day...
