Think first..give your S the benefit of doubt

[RedHeadWife]

Hey Cat, ever thought about posting over on SSM? Lots of good people over there! Hope all is going better. I agree that fights or arguments have to happen sometimes, but when we are "here" it's a bit more scary b/c we are afraid that we may end up back on the dark side or something.

I remember I used to say "my H and I never fight" and then after almost 8 yrs he dropped the D bomb. It's all about communication, huh? And making sure it's always there.