Signs that he's changed and is now the great guy I always wanted: - spends time with the kids doing fun stuff - comes home from work early to be with ow and her son - spends lots of time with ow - supposedly isn't drinking anymore
Signs that he hasn't changed: - now wants to spend less w/e time w/ kids b/c it is too "onerous" (IOW takes time away from him and ow) - he is in the honeymoon stage with ow, and did the same thing with me - I have no clue if he's drinking or not, no clue if he's faithful to her or has a wandering eye - still apparently doesn't believe in God - overreacts when things don't go his way - does not really seem happy (but has big work stress right now) - is not in any kind of counselling, so how could he go from being "unable to love" to being able to, just from meeting someone new? - short of divine intervention, no one can change that dramatically so quickly
That's all I can think of right now. But I needed to look at this logically.
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