I know - questions I'll never have the answers to, but can't get them out of my head.
Yep. Another of life's mysteries. Crazy, ain't it.
But still, I don't know about the leaving security of a job. I can think of reasons to take a chance and I can think of reasons to leave a relationship. But when they eschew their children, I can never understand that.
Take things a day at a time. Don't trty to do too much at once.