Greeneyedlass,

Do you have any recomendations on how to find out what her "gut" is telling her, or how to prompt her to listen to her gut?

Something is stoping her from moving forward with the divorce. Not sure what it is, but it could be her gut feelings. She says that she wants out, but isn't finalizing it. She could be just keeping her options open. But my guess is that something is telling her to not nail it shut and that she really does love me and doesn't want to be divorced a second time.