Cobra wrote:"No, I am not calling you a hypocrite. I am only saying that I agree with LFL in that there seems to be a hypocrisy in your advice to people on this board about how to work on their marriages after or during an EA or PA."

If someone engages in hypocrisy, does that not, by definition, make them a hypocrite?

Hypocrisy: the practice of claiming to have moral standards or beliefs to which one's own behavior does not conform; pretense.

Maybe you should try again with a different word. Try diametrical on for size and see how it works for you.

-NOPkins-


I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.