No, I am not calling you a hypocrite. I am only saying that I agree with LFL in that there seems to be a hypocrisy in your advice to people on this board about how to work on their marriages after or during an EA or PA. You are the one who said you would break another man’s jaw if your wife cheated on you, and then throw out the marriage to boot. That is the example I had in mind. So does all this mean I am presumptive or that you are a hypocrite? I don’t know. Its just my opinion on this particular issue.