I would have to agree on that also COG - our relationship has changed immensely since I stopped taking crap from H. I was just tired of his redirecting the blame always on me. As soon as I would bring up an issue that he didn't like the table would be turned (definitely his way of deflecting - which even the C told him numerous times)

Once I put my foot down (gently I might add) it was like he started respecting me even more. There is no confrontation, just a gentle reminder here and there that I won't be treated like that anymore than he would be

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)