DadNotQuitting posted this to his thread and I want to make sure it's here also.
"From David Deida's "The Way of the Superior Man" (thanks Frank for turning me on to this - where was it three years ago?)
"when you woman seems to have an emotional problem, you want to know why. You want to know what is upsetting her. You assume there is a specific cause. You want to know what triggered her bad mood so you can fix the situation"
"questioning is probably making her mood worse......90% of a woman's emotional problems stem from feeling unloved...... so don't stand back analyzing her, like a doctor analyzing a patient. Give her your love - the same love that is motivating your questioning - immediately and unmistakably"
"your analysis and attempts to fix her will just piss her off more""
