Your biggest regret

[still hoping]

KMS: I agree with you - things do have a way of working out. That's really great that things are going so well for you. Even though I'm still somewhat in the midst of all this drama, I know that I'm ok and will be ok no matter what because when I'm lying in bed with my boys, they're all that I need. Having their dad at the other end would be the icing on the cake - preferably their real dad, but if one day it's someone else who loves them just as much, that'd be ok too.

keyz: If my M does one day finally come to an end, I hope that I will reach that acceptance and serenity that you have. I've read from studies that in most cases, 5 years after D, people aren't necessarily happier. I think that DB definitely helps to prevent this from happening, so no matter what, I'm glad to have found the book and this site.