The above link is to my last thread. I have been posting on the "I'm Thinking About Leaving" board. My frustrations with my H are truly "Killing Me Softly .."!
I have been reading with much interest posts in this MLC area from wives of alcoholic husbands and ALSO some of you recovering (and maybe not so?) spouses.
Since I last posted on my linked site (above) I have been communicating with another BB. They are very strong advocates of letting your spouse "go" .. having to let him hit his bottom ..
I am trying to figure out how to do this, without demolishing our marriage. Maybe that isn't possible? .. I guess the big question here would be "WHY" would I want to continue IF things didn't change ..?
Do any of you .. who are on the "other side of the fence" (not wanting to leave, OR trying to get your spouse to stay OR maybe you are the spouse having the problem with alcohol?) have any advice .. different approaches .. OR something that worked for you??
