And so, you have LFL's blessing Thank you. Sincerely. For all of it.

Who will call you on your BS (which there is much of, lol) and also let you "top her top" as needed.
Yes. yes, good, excellant, she sounds perfect....... wait a minute what do you mean LET ME top her top. You did that just to fry me. bah. let me. *grumble grumble*. my worst fears written. ;\)

GEL.
Hows your wrist? full recovery? did you put down some nerf in the corral? heheh. got a seat belt on that pony now? LOL.

I've finally learned to listen to my gut. When I found out what he'd been doing online a year ago...many of you (I believe you were one of them) urged me to cut him loose (understandably), at the very least kick him out.
Yes I was. I didnt want you to end it. My thought was he needed a serious repercussion to violating boundaries. I never intended or thought it would be permanent. It wasnt about your pride for me, that rarely works out for a well implemented boundary..
At any rate you did it your way, and its good to see you so happy.

Thank you for your further comments to 12_51 and me. Hopefully he can find some inspiration there. Its (not) funny how with those two voices, even when you 'know' its usually the attraction one that wins.