[*whistle]
Wow SG, not only are you quite fetching when you are pi$$ed, but your rhetoric's acuminate is exceptionally well trained. If my bosom bore lifes blood, instead of this icebox, you most certainly would have left me shivered. \:\)

Come on now, manipulation? Such an ugly word. Really. How did you know that word grates me. [squinty look] Mojo gets to be toungue in cheek but I am manipulative? It was unsporting to gloat, forgive me. (It really was worth the sauciness though.) Honestly Id rather just talk forthright with you as was my original intention. I got sidetracked by some boredom, and a part of work that is best left at work.


And I don't buy the "call of the wild" stuff. Sorry. You can be anything you wish with a woman that doesn't matter a tuppence to you, but you'd not feel the same way in a LTR.
Well, its strange that women often dont believe my honesty. You totally have that backwards. I take great pains to do no harm. The women that dont matter a tuppance, are quite safe from ever encountering anything viscerally hurtful. Since I am judged by my actions, not my feelings, looking at my hurt leached out here, is not an acurrate representation of what others saw.
Much like I said to LFL. Her emotions may flipflop wildly here, but her IRL actions deserve a whole differant level of respect. Shes certainly no paragon of virtue, but if you had seen me eat x alive like a struggling bleating gazelle, right when she found her bunny again, you would be not be differing with me about this. thats why my personal boundary is if she commits marital infidelity, she is OUT. [snap]*poof* boundaries are not always for ourselves.

I mean strait-laced as in "not much tolerance for shades of grey".

It's not a condemnation, or even a put-down. It's an observation. Oh. well then once again we agree. an accurate observation is no put down. I appreciate it. Now I can determine, is it holding me back, or protecting, not so much me, but others. My original interpretation was still very amusing to me.

Your remark seemed to be directed In referance to Mojo's sister's attributes, none of which would or do put me off. (other then her height) I have no M/W tendencies. If she is not married, or does not have A (singular) bf, then she is potential. Prior to my M I was in fact afraid of women with multiple bf's-- didnt trust them, or more accurately my ability to hold them. With some assistance from HP, first and now Mojo, I think, by golly that poor girl is getting bounced on too many knees. She needs me to save her. LOL.
Its all perception, and Id much rather enter a marriage with someone who has their eyes open, which only comes from experience, then some clueless 'innocent' liable to self destruct on ignorant drama. Besides for the most part, they just stand there frozen with deer in the headlight eyes when I am around them. not very scintilliating.