Thanks Onthebeach,

I think I jagged my post before I read your second one.

Good advice, I will not discuss things with DD, I will not bring OM up again, I will continue GALing.

Thanks for making things clearer for me, sometimes I get lost in the fog.

AndyV
M38
W36
D7
M 13 years
Together 17 years
W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off)
W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06)
EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM)
Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."