Need another opinion, is my W OM, friend or more?

[andyv]

Thx Onthebeach,

When I found out about it this morning (from my DD who was too scared to tell me), I confronted W about it.

I told her that I did not care what she did away from our home or DD, but I told her that I did not want him to set foot in our house again, and never have him anywhere near our DD (unless necessary eg kickboxing when she has to take DD due to my work committments).

She still believes she is not doing anything wrong, that she has told DD that OM is only a friend, and women are allowed to have friends etc.

I really don't know what to believe, I have told her just to be honest with me, as I need to move on also (re real deal between them).

She has never stayed over his house overnight, she has told me that she has not even kissed him (other than cheek), and that she enjoys his company (non PA). They have not discussed anything relationship wise, they go to the movies together, hang out etc.

I may be old fashioned, but I have never experienced a friendship between a male and female of this nature, especially because he is so much younger than her.

I am thinking more and more that he may be gay (not overtly, possibly doesn't realise). As W's cousin thought that also (as he is a friend of hers too).

What other male would love hanging around only females, watching DVD's, dancing at clubs, going on trips interstate etc?