AndyV You have the right to have boundaries at your own domicile. If you don't want him there then make sure it's clear. If you don't want him around your daughter then you need to take steps in that direction. You have to decide what your boundaries are and how to make them stick.
Her disregard for your feelings is a sign of her overall disrespect for you. Talk with a counselor and get professional advice as to how to reach your goals.
