She invited OM to our house for dinner (with DD) whilst I was GALing and spent a night at a friends house. She cooked him dinner (something she rarely does, as I do all the cooking). She picked him up from his house, then they picked DD up together from school, then she dropped him off at his house later in the night (with DD).
This really pisses me off, as she knows how I feel, and I have asked her to keep him away from my home and my family (DD).
She keeps telling me that he is only a friend and they enjoy each others company. They have done nothing and are not in a relationship other than friendship. She told me that she knows I have already formed my own opinion of them and she doesn't care. He has not discussed taking their freindship further nor has she.
She loves his company.
WTF, why is he always around, everywhere she goes he is there. What sort of friendship can a 26 y/o male have with a 36 y/o mother going through separation??????
Why is he hanging around???? Why is he so available to do things at short notice with her?????
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."