YOU picked a bad time to bring this up? So when is there a "good" time? When the kids go to college, when they get married, after they have had all their kids, when you retire. Plezzzzzzzzz - there is no such thing as a good time.
This is just another way of deflecting - another pretty common tactic of avoidance
I started wondering today if I SHOULDN'T have waited, just a tad, cuz of D18's graduation. But then I thought about the calendar: Graduation. D20 & D18 moving out end of May. June? Father's Day. Early July? Her birthday. Mid-July? My birthday.
It will ALWAYS be something. It was time to DO something, and as much as I really did hate springing it on her, there's no question that it not only had to be done, but it had to be done now.
