MC, Your option #2 has gone through my head. The only reason that I do not feel good about it is because of my DD's. I want to make sure that no matter which parent they are with that they are riding in a reliable car. But if she does get hostile I might just go with your option #2.
One of the things that my W told me the other day is rattling around in my head for some reason tonight. Maybe its the two Texas sized beers that I drank maybe not. She said even though this is no more ERC and Mrs.ERC she is still Ms. ERC(I hope this reads ok). I do not know how she can think that she is herself. I do not want to invalidate the feelings that she is having but my W in the past was not immoral, not a liar, not a deciever, not a seductive woman, not a blatent sinner, not disrespectful, not self centered, not ...... I can probably go on. She thinks that she is herself rightnow, I have to say that this is not the woman that I fell in love with. She was none of these things. Now this is who she is, this is who she has become. I want my W back but not until she can ground herself and see that she is decieving herself. I will just love her as best I can from afar.
