HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[johns_blondie]

Lisa...He's on the rollercoaster from H*ll and he's trying to drag you on it too. Just tell him no thank you...I don't want to ride!

If he calls again like he did the other night...do not talk to him. If he continues to call...unplug the phone. You don't deserve to hear all the garbage he's spewing at you. Not to mention the hormones making it about 10X worse.

My H did the same thing and I fell for it so many times. It was a control thing with him that he could make himself feel like a "big man" to degrade me like that. One night I took a deep breath and told him I was not going to listen to it and I hung up. He proceeded to call me on my home and cell phone so many times that I finally had to un-plug the home one and turn off the other one. I went to bed and the next morning when I plugged my home phone back in...it was ringing. It was him appologizing.

I'm not saying your's will do the same...but you just don't have to listen to that.