You've got to get rid of the fear if you want to get on w/ piecing, right? You're going to have to continue to stick out your neck and take chances. If you've gotten to this point and now W is willing to come back and take on some of the R work, you need to hike up your boot straps and get in there and do the best DB'ing you know how!!

You're probably still unhappy & fearful b/c the entire sitch happened in the first place. It sucks. But if you want to keep your M, you've got to continue to be willing to put in the effort & work it's still going to take.

It's not over yet. Keep up that positive thinking. And there is a "success stories" forum!!


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10