Just my $.02, I still think you seem to be doing great by working on you -- that is so very hard to do in the sitch at hand! I think you are doing really well also in dealing w/ her. I do hope that she starts seeing how much you want your M to work out and that she is able to bring herself back to you. Maybe she just needs this time to deal w/ her issues on her own. I can't remember if you asked if she would go to C or if you are going to C or not.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10