Just my $.02, I still think you seem to be doing great by working on you -- that is so very hard to do in the sitch at hand! I think you are doing really well also in dealing w/ her. I do hope that she starts seeing how much you want your M to work out and that she is able to bring herself back to you. Maybe she just needs this time to deal w/ her issues on her own. I can't remember if you asked if she would go to C or if you are going to C or not.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10