Kml, I think you are forgetting ABUSE! It is not appropriate for kids to witness physical assault by one parent on another. That is emotionally devastating. I agree with that in many cases, divorce is self centred. People just refuse to work hard to change the R, the kids suffer. It's just become too easy to say "Oh, we just weren't right for each other", "We just don't communicate" Crap! You don't because you don't want to. BUT kids witnessing abuse, that 's a way different thing. Sol needs to look at the welfare of his kids and that may mean doing something like leaving. I am not advocating it one way or the other. It's Sol's job to decide, he knows best.
