I'm not meaning to imply that he shouldn't want what he wants...not at all. All I'm saying is he has quite a bit of control over the direction of his thread...so I took some exception with your comment about it taking a wrong direction since he led it in that direction.
I also agree that there probably are some men out there that could obtain his list, but as you said, they'd be putting in some exceptional effort to have that list fulfilled...and that would entail A LOT work internally on themselves to make them that completely irresistable to a woman. The ONE man I've ever had that experience with was my late fiancee...and a large part of that irresistability I felt towards him was that he wanted me as a part of his life but he didn't need me as a part of it. He didn't rely on me to ensure the fullness and happiness of his life...I was just the cherry on top if-you-will. He chose to share it with me, he didn't need me to make it that way.
